Romance Scam

A romance scam is a form of confidence fraud in which an attacker creates a fake romantic persona — typically on dating apps, social media, or messaging platforms — to build trust with a victim before requesting money or directing them toward fraudulent investments.

Mechanism

  1. The scammer constructs an appealing online identity (often using stolen photos).
  2. They invest weeks or months in relationship-building, creating emotional dependency.
  3. Once trust is established, they introduce a financial request: an emergency, a business opportunity, or a “can’t-miss” investment platform.
  4. Victims transfer funds, usually via cryptocurrency, which is irreversible and pseudonymous.
  5. Once funds are sent, the scammer disappears or continues to extract more.

Relationship to Pig-Butchering

Pig-butchering (also called sha zhu pan) is a subcategory of romance scam that adds a sophisticated fake investment platform. The victim is “fattened” (encouraged to see growing “returns”) before being “slaughtered” (the platform vanishes with all deposits).

Scale

The FBI’s IC3 2025 report (weisman-2026-ic3-cryptocurrency-investment-scams) found that investment fraud — overwhelmingly romance-scam-driven — accounted for 72% of all investment scam losses ($8.65 billion), with cryptocurrency as the preferred payment vector.

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